Should a person’s younger self be able to decide for them on assisted suicide?
from SPUC:
“The worst indignity is to deny personhood.”
In May, Guardian columnist Polly Toynbee wrote an article revealing that the celebrated writer and journalist Katharine Whitehorn has Alzheimer’s disease.
“She wouldn’t want to live like this”
Toynbee begins by praising Katharine Whitehorn’s career and legacy, and commiserating with her mental decline, but the article develops into an argument for assisted suicide. She points out that Ms Whitehorn wrote in favour of the “right to die” and reports that “her sons say without doubt that if the real Katharine could see herself now she would be horrified, never having wanted to end up as she is.” But she goes further, asking, “Who wants to leave family and friends with a final memory of themselves as a vegetable, a distortion, an alien being?”
She asserts, “surely the real Katharine Whitehorn, the one in her right mind, is custodian of herself, arbiter of what or who is her real self and when to discard an empty husk?” Polly Toynbee also recently argued that assisted suicide laws were necessary to prevent another Gosport, despite the report making very clear that the people killed there were not at the end of their lives.
Who decides?
However, it seems that Katharine Whitehorn’s son, Bernard Lyall, thinks rather differently about his mother’s condition. He agrees that “Kath had argued for the right to die, has a living will, and would have been horrified to see herself like this.” However, he says, “now the power to let her go has fallen to me, it’s not so simple.”
He asks a very pertinent question: “But even if we were allowed to proactively end someone’s life on their earlier instruction, should their younger self be allowed to make such decisions about the person they are now? Polly thinks so, and the young Kath might well have agreed. But the young Kath isn’t here, and the old one is, usually, pretty content.”
“Humiliating” for who?
Mr Lyall also takes issue with some of the derogatory comments Toynbee makes about those with mental decline. He continues: “So I can’t help wondering about this vicarious sense of shame, at what Polly, in another piece on the right to die, has termed ‘humiliating mental collapse’. Who, exactly, is humiliated here? Who is ashamed? Not Kath, I can tell you, not any more. Should we be humiliated on her behalf?”
For him, what is important is helping his mother live with Alzheimer’s, and the importance of talking about it honestly while that is still possible.
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